hi friends,
i want to know what do you think about long distance relationships. so please leave me a comment if u have any doubt or just write something.
i have to start by saying im quite of an expert on this topic and i have to say is not an easy thing.
long distance relations are kind of hard, sometimes you just feel tired at some point that you cannot get what you would like, for example; no kisses, no hugs, no celebrating valentines or other occasions just because your beloved one is sooo freaking far, in my case sometimes i feel very frustrated that i cannot run to his side and hug him after a tough day but you just simply cant :(, that's why when you start something like this you have to be conscious that you have to wait to see him/her (like i do just on holidays) and that it's a full time job to stay on the right track. So here you have a few tips if you thinking to start a long distance relationship.
1. You have to trust your boyfriend/girlfriend 100% , is basic in this kind of relations.
2. Time, you need to dedicate time to make it work, is not just once in a month not even once in a week.
3.patience, a lot of patience
4.the most important thing LOVE, make sure you have real feeling for the guy/girl other ways at some point will get boring.
5.and do not forget to have a life, is very important to remember you always first and you need to live your life not just be all about your long distance love.
6. Communication, is the most important part in any relationship
be happy and let me know what u think
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First off, i do not believe in long distance relationships. Too many times its being away for a while that breaks the backbone of the relationship. Having travelled between countries many times and having left someone behind almost every time, i can say that it is a form of self torture.
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ReplyDeleteI think, that long distance relationships now adays have more chance to be successfull than 25 years ago. A lot off people speak foreign languageses, so you can understand each other easier.With the computer and its many possibilities its possible to keep in touch.The more you can tell your friend about the things you explore the more you keep your relationship alive.
ReplyDeletebut it stays difficult to have a relations on a long distance, not beeing together.
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nelleke
I do believe in long distance relationships, as I am in one myself.. Obviously its self torture but if u love this person and u know u will stay together for the rest of your lives, its worth the try, better try and die trying than do not try at all
ReplyDeletelong distance relationship is not easy but if you love someone really it's doneble, but for my experience as a father of a long timerelationship it's not easy to, for not seeing your daugther in low..
ReplyDeletetheo
Long distance relationships works only for the short time. In the beginning you want invest a lot of time and money. Finally for the long time both have make the compromises. You must choose to life together in the long time and one of both have give up a part of his life.
ReplyDeleteI don’t believe that the relationship works when you don’t see each other enough. My opinion is that there are so much nice boys and girls close by, that it is not necessary to have a long distance relationship.
My conclusion, long distance relationships are fun for the short time, but for the long time be friends and go on with your life!!!
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ReplyDeleteen lo personal creo que las los amores a distancia son posibles siempre y cuando sea la persona correcta y hayan convivido juntos y se conozcan.... todo tiene su chiste :) saludos!!
True dat!
ReplyDeletei think long distancerelationship is very hard to do and it's important to keep telling eatchother things and to keep making plans together so you have always something to look forward to together.
ReplyDeletekisses edward
Well personlly I have been in that situation, it worked out in the begining but never is going to be the same as having that person next to you. Specially suffering with the hope that you are going to see each other soon that kills me. Honestly I would not do it again.
ReplyDeletemmm first of all, as a person who had a long distance relationship, i don't think that it's a good idea to have one. it's just not healthy in both ways, mentally and physically. Mentally, especially girls go crazy by starting to "imagining" that her beloved one is "cheating" on her. Then, if the guy doesn't pick up the phone or somethin', then she becomes more "sure" that he IS "cheating" on her.
ReplyDeleteThen guys, they "think" that their girlfriends r cheating on them or thinking that they never "know". Therefore, they think it's alright for them to "cheat" or "hang out" with girls because guys think that girls might do the same OR girlfriends are not there to see.
I have seen a few, very few couples who manage to have a long distance relationship. However, I don't think I would like to go through headaches at all.
it's hard to life without your boy/girlfriend, i never had it but i think i will die with a long term relationship
ReplyDeleteLong distance relationship, well i really need to know and to love that person a lot to be willing to put myself through this.
ReplyDeleteMe parece que los amores de lejos son de pendejos.....pero el amor es el amor y cada quien su pex...alla cada quien...con eso de la generacion promiscua y de las mentes abiertas y los amigos con derechos...quien sabe a donde vamos a parar....Saludos y viva el amor (real)
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No estoy de acuerdo con amores de lejos... pero todos somos diferentes y reaccionamos dif. a cada suceso.. Yo no soportaria otra, pienso.. mas no aseguro =S
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Para mi es importante el compartir momentos, yo no sé si podría a distancia, quienes mantienen una relación muy linda de lejos considero que tienen mucha fortaleza, confianza, y amor!!
ReplyDeleteq bien q estas de enomarada felicidades
ReplyDeleteaee nOo..!! yO nO creO n eL amor a distanciA la vd.. cOmo suelen deciR: "amOr d lejOs, felices los cuatrO" jaja.. perO es muy cierto, por mas confianza q tengas en alguien es muy dificil creer asi como tu puedes entregar tu vida, tu pasion y tu entrega a una persona y serle fiel es muy dificil q la otra persona sea igual contigo, q te sea correspondida.. yo la verdad nunca podria, alomejor porque no soy tan confiada pero los hombres son muy engañosos y yo no podria creer en uno. suerte jessy =)
ReplyDeletebueno en mi punto de vista las relaciones a distancia son muy complejas ya que como tu comentas se necesita mucha paciencia, confianza y tiempo, yo creo que las relaciones a distancia si pueden funcionar, en mi caso no lo he experimientado pero conozco mucha gente que tiene relaciones a distancia exitosas y plenas!!, creo que una relacion en si siempre es dificil sea a distancia o no, aqui entra entonces la manera de pensar de cada persona y el amor que existe entre ambos es decir poner en una balanza que tanto vale la pena el sacrificio de estar separados, pero creo que si de verdad amas a esa persona y quieres estar con el/ella no importa la distancia!!
ReplyDeleteEn lo personal, yo tambien considero un trabajo dificil el tener una relacion a distancia, mas no digo que sea imposible...lo que pasa, eske si uno estando cerca se quiere sacar los ojos pues estando lejos pasas de 'lo extraño' a 'que estara haciendo ese desgraciado???' porque pues uno lo quiera o no pues a veces gana la duda y es ahi cuando uno tiene que evaluar como se considera y como ve la relacion en general... Pero me pareció sumamente interesante el hecho de que hayas dicho que uno no debe de olvidarse de tener una vida, creo que eso es lo primordial para que funcione cualquier tipo de relacion, ya sea a distancia o no, la verdad aunque estes con el amor de tu vida pues pues lo unico que estas haciendo es integrarlo a tu vida...y por supuesto, como tu mencionas tienes que tener plena confianza no solo en la pareja sino tambien en ti... =)
ReplyDeleteCREO YO QUE TIENE SU GRADO DE DIFICULTAD PERO DICEN POR AHI QUE "EL AMOR NO TIENE BARRERAS" Y SI ESA RELACION LA PONES EN PRIMER PLANO Y LAS BAJAS A LA REALIDAD SE PUEDEN LOGRAR MUCHAS COSAS, LO QUE SI ES QUE LA CONFIANZA TIENE QUE SER TOTALMENTE CIEGA YA QUE ES MUY DIFICIL CREERLE A UNA PERSONA A CIENTOS O MILES DE KILOMETROS, PERO CREO QUE TODO ES POSIBLE SI SE LUCHA SI HAY SINCERIDAD SI HAY AMOR QUE ES LO MAS IMPORTANTE...... DESDE CD JUAREZ ADRIAN
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ReplyDeletea longdisctance relation is not really something for me. i want to see my girlfriend and pass by as i want. there are many pretty girls arround so it makes no sence for a girlfriend far away.
Reinier
love is love i think if it's far or not it's you always has to fight for it.
ReplyDeletegabriel
Love is all about distance - both personal and geographical. People can grow apart even when they live in the same house, so actual distance is not the culprit - the people in the relationship are the problem
ReplyDeleteIt is topic that depends on people. I saw some ppl had happy end at the end but it did not work for me (now i remember it was not fun). Now I would not like to have long distance relationship. I am young and best time of my life. I would not do it but if u luv someone (real luv & serious) then it may work out. Jess tips are useful thou :) Anyway wish u all da best jess take care :)
ReplyDeleteWELL... personally i think long distant relationships can work, depends on your character and commitment... , por cierto, tengo una relación lejana y funciona por que nos adoramos y amamos.
ReplyDeleteLong distance, for me, I don't really believe that it works.... Unless one of the couple is so rich that makes them able to meet all the time...What I think, at the very beginning, it's too hard for a couple to separate. It made the couple feel they cannot live without each other and make them to think so extreme. That's how the long term relationship begins. However, time really flies and make them sad all the time and being hopeless.It is not really worth to do it. For me, if it is really impossible to be together in the future (cannot forsee the future), keep the best memory and give up. And live better.
ReplyDelete¿cómo puedes conocer a alguien de esta forma?, es un "mundo imaginario", una fantasía y la realidad es ver, tocar, oler, escuchar, sentir, experimentar. No se puede construir un futuro a distancia todo el tiempo, la distancia solo funcionaría temporalmente... siempre y cuando ya conozcas a la persona. No es saludable definitivamente..
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